Sunday, April 1, 2012
Saturday, March 24, 2012
MOVING ON
I have several substrate beliefs that will take me where I am going to go. First, how you feel or don't feel about another says much about you. How they respond, says something about them. Think about that deeply. You may or may not know all of your reasons for feeling the way you do about that person. I suspect you may not have the whole story about them. Consider yourself for a moment. Is the first person of this personality type you have loved or is this a pattern? If it is a pattern, are you getting yourself involved with unavailable individuals? If so, you may need to look deeply at your motivation in choosing that type of person and why you are attracted to them. Now, lets look a them. Now, if you clearly did some misdeed that caused the breakup, you may have to live with it. That person may not trust you again. If you have not done anything of that sort, and you are blaming your self for something minor like "saying was instead of were." Then, you need to access if that person has some deeper issue that may not have anything to do with you directly. If they have issues, it is best to let them have the space to address them. It may take years. There is a song which has the lyric, "I can't make you love me, if you don't. You can't make your heart feel something it won't." You can give of yourself and offer your love and support. If that person does not, can not, or will not love you back, then there is nothing you can do about it. That is their choice. And you really do not want them unless they truly loved you in return, right? Now, do not think ill of that person. The care that person has for you may be all they have to give and they are just being honest. I am of the belief that "Love Never Fails." I believe that once you love someone it does not die. But I believe that love is about giving and not getting. You must give them their request. That is in many ways a great gift of love, a gift of respect. You will have to go on. Time will heal you wounds. Allow yourself to sorrow and feel the pain now for the time of grief will pass. You will learn to live with the loss. You will always love that person, but that does not mean you will not love again!
Sunday, March 18, 2012
UNPREDICTABLE
People walk into our lives just like that,and they can walk out just like that too. Friends for years to strangers in a few minutes,stranger for years to close friends in a few months. It was just like yesterday when you are still here,when everything was fine and perfect. I never thought that this will happen,but it just did. A sudden change of mind,a sudden change of heart. LIFE IS JUST SO UNPREDICTABLE But I wouldn't change it, Cos that is what makes life, LIFE.
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Written by a Guy
Girls need to realize!!! ♥ We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there an...d talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls or texts you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2am that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you ! Don't feel bad. We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say thank you. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of make-up you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/ media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word"handsome"/'beautiful"I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with"Hey handsome!"instead of"Hey baby/stud/ cutie/sexy"or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't like it either. Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes and say I love you and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance.
ADVICE: *Holding
Hands* -Girls: If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times. *Movies* -Girls: During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt
your head on his shoulder. -Guys: Lift her chin up and kiss her. *Loving each other* -Guys: When
she tells you she loves you, look deep into her
eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her
too and mean it. *Laying below the stars* -Girls: When you're both laying under
the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his
steady heartbeat. -Guys: Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Love How It Sounds
one of the best song i ever heard
I've been waitingAll my lifeFor someone like you to come mess with my mindSomeone crazySomeone whoSomeone who loved me the way I loved you
I keep searchingAnd what's worseNow that you're gone, all that's left is the hurt
Three little words, it's all that I've gotThree little words, like it or notTell me you noticeTell me you heardFor you I would run to the ends of the EarthI couldn't keep youBut I'll keep my wordIt's the most beautiful pain in the worldI love how it hurts
I've been trying since you leftTrying to fix all the bits that you wreckedI'm just waiting 'til it mendsThen I'll let you break it again and again
Three little words, it's all that I've gotThree little words, like it or notTell me you noticeTell me you heardFor you I'd have run the the ends of the EarthI couldn't keep youBut I'll keep my word
It's the most beautiful pain in the worldI love how it hurts
I've been losing my mindI pretend that it's fineTrying to keep it togetherWhile I crumble insideYou got a friend at the end of the line
Give me a moment, give me a chanceI'm lost in the hurt, I'm caught in the pastGive me a moment, give me the pastGive me the hurt, I know it can last
Tell me you noticeTell me you heardFor you I'd have run to the ends of the EarthI couldn't keep youBut I'll keep my wordIt's the most beautiful pain in the worldI love how it hurts
I love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurtsI love how it hurts
This is my journey, this ain't the endI'm waiting here 'til I see you again
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Monday, July 12, 2010
An Amazing Love Story
SALTY COFFEE
He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after
her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the
party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but
due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was
too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please,
let me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. "would you please give me
some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he
put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why
you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near
the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea,
just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty
coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my
hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While
saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can
tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home,
has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about
her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice
talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.
They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets
all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was
such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty
coffee!
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess
married to the prince, then they were living the happy life... And,
every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee e, as she
knew that's the way he liked it.
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My
dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I
said to you --the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so
nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It
was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be
the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times
in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to
lie to you for anything..
Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like
the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty
coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for
anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my
whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you
and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee
again".
Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's
the taste of salty coffee?
It's sweet. She replied...
Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2 hear
but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!
Sunday, July 11, 2010
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